Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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If what one has to say is not better than silence, then one should keep silent.
Interpretation
What this quote means
If your words do not contribute positively, it's better to remain silent.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of thoughtful communication. It suggests that silence can often be more valuable than meaningless or hurtful speech, encouraging individuals to speak only when they have something constructive to contribute.
Themes
SilenceCommunicationWisdomThoughtfulnessSpeech
In practice
Example use cases
In a group discussion, when someone expresses a controversial opinion, it might be wise to refer to this quote to emphasize the value of silence.
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