You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
One paradox of professional writing is that books written solely for money and/or acclaim will almost never be good enough to garner either.
Interpretation
Writing for money or recognition often leads to poor quality work.
David Foster Wallace highlights the paradox that when writers focus solely on financial gain or fame, their work tends to lack authenticity and quality. True value in writing comes from genuine passion and depth rather than from a desire for external validation, suggesting that success in writing is rooted in sincerity and craftsmanship rather than in the pursuit of accolades or profit.
In practice
During a writing workshop, to inspire students to write from their heart, quote David Foster Wallace to emphasize the importance of authenticity in writing.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like youβve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and itβs like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
You, and you alone, get to determine whether you are going to react positively about something or negatively about something - or, interestingly, have no reaction at all. Your emotions are entirely under your control. Your feelings are what you want them to be.
I can see, and that is why I can be happy, in what you call the dark, but which to me is golden. I can see a God-made world, not a manmade world.
Let no thought pass incognito, and keep your notebook as strictly as the authorities keep their register of aliens.
Have no mean hours, but be grateful for every hour, and accept what it brings. The reality will make any sincere record respectable.
It is remarkable how long men will believe in the bottomlessness of a pond without taking the trouble to sound it.
The problem with forbearance is that it always looks like a good thing to do until it stops working.
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