The novels that attract me most are those that create an illusion of transparency around a knot of human relationships as obscure, cruel, and perverse as possible.
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If one wanted to depict the whole thing graphically, every episode, with its climax, would require a three-dimensional, or, rather, no model: every experience is unrepeatable. What makes lovemaking and reading resemble each other most is that within both of them times and spaces open, different from measurable time and space.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love and reading create unique, unrepeatable experiences that transcend normal time and space.
This quote by Italo Calvino suggests that both love and reading offer profound, individual experiences that cannot be replicated. Just as each moment of intimacy is unique to the lovers involved, so too is each reading experience, allowing the participants to enter alternate dimensions of time and feeling that differ from the structured reality around them.
Themes
LoveReadingExperiencesTimeSpace
In practice
Example use cases
This quote is perfect for a romantic Valentine's Day card.
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