The work an unknown good man has done is like a vein of water flowing hidden underground, secretly making the ground green.
Thomas CarlyleRead
Look to be treated by others as you have treated others.
Interpretation
Treat others the way you want to be treated to foster mutual respect.
This quote emphasizes the importance of reciprocity in human interactions. It suggests that the way we treat others will often determine how we are treated in return, highlighting the value of kindness, respect, and empathy in building strong relationships.
In practice
In a motivational speech about teamwork, you might say, 'Remember, Look to be treated by others as you have treated others.'
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Improve relationships with others by assuming that they can hear everything you say about them
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