When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
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It's not about 'what can I accomplish?' but 'what do I want to accomplish?' Paradigm shift.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of setting personal intentions over self-imposed limitations.
BrenΓ© Brown's quote challenges the conventional mindset of focusing solely on what achievements are possible. Instead, it encourages individuals to consider their own desires and goals, promoting a paradigm shift that prioritizes personal fulfillment and aspiration over societal expectations or conventional metrics of success.
Themes
AccomplishParadigm ShiftPersonal GoalsIntentionDesire
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech to inspire students to pursue their passions.
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