I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
Craig FergusonRead
I think when you become a parent you go from being a star in the movie of your own life to the supporting player in the movie of someone else's.
Interpretation
Becoming a parent shifts your focus from your own life to supporting your children's lives.
This quote by Craig Ferguson captures the transformative experience of parenthood, illustrating how becoming a parent often means relegating oneself to a supporting role in the narrative of life, as one dedicates time and energy to nurture and support their children. The journey through parenthood is marked by an inherent selflessness, where personal ambitions and desires give way to the needs and aspirations of one's offspring.
In practice
In a speech about family values, one might use this quote to highlight the importance of prioritizing children.
I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
I remember talking to someone early on after I was sober about how I suddenly felt awkward at parties. They said, 'Well, you're supposed to. Everyone feels awkward at parties.' It's an appropriate feeling to feel.
A lot of people come to L.A. looking for something. What I came here for, I realize now, is to be okay with myself.
If I start giving people what they like I'll turn into one of them and I don't want to be one of them I want to be one of me.
When I stopped drinking, it was only because I thought if I don't stop, I'm going to die.
The Universe is very, very big. It also loves a paradox. For example, it has some extremely strict rules. Rule number one: Nothing lasts forever. Not you or your family or your house or your planet or the sun. It is an absolute rule. Therefore when someone says that their love will never die, it means that their love is not real, for everything that is real dies. Rule number two: Everything lasts forever.
I wish all the mothers, fathers and children out there realize how much I need them and how much I value their support.
Fatherhood is the unending imperfect task of turning yourself into your dad while secretly maintaining the unbridled elation of your boyhood
You can say I had a severe case of 'Roots' envy. I wanted to be like Alex Haley, and I wanted to be able to... do my family tree back to the slave ship and then reverse the Middle Passage, as I like to put it, and find the tribe or ethnic group that I was from in Africa.
Men, to exist, to become complete and mature, need to feel the joy of fatherhood. When a man does not have this desire, something is missing in this man, it is like an incomplete life: a life that stops half way. The grace of fatherhood; of giving life to others, of pastoral paternity, of spiritual paternity is a gift from God.
I would give up the unessential; I would give my money, I would give my life for my children; but I wouldn't give myself.
The mother is everything - she is our consolation in sorrow, our hope in misery, and our strength in weakness. She is the source of love, mercy, sympathy, and forgiveness. He who loses his mother loses a pure soul who blesses and guards him constantly
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