I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
Craig FergusonRead
If I start giving people what they like I'll turn into one of them and I don't want to be one of them I want to be one of me.
Interpretation
Staying true to oneself is more important than conforming to others' expectations.
This quote emphasizes the importance of individuality and self-identity. Craig Ferguson expresses a desire to remain authentic and not to lose oneself by merely conforming to what others expect or desire, suggesting that true fulfillment comes from embracing one's unique self rather than trying to please everyone around them.
In practice
Using this quote in a speech about the importance of self-acceptance.
I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
I remember talking to someone early on after I was sober about how I suddenly felt awkward at parties. They said, 'Well, you're supposed to. Everyone feels awkward at parties.' It's an appropriate feeling to feel.
A lot of people come to L.A. looking for something. What I came here for, I realize now, is to be okay with myself.
I think when you become a parent you go from being a star in the movie of your own life to the supporting player in the movie of someone else's.
When I stopped drinking, it was only because I thought if I don't stop, I'm going to die.
The Universe is very, very big. It also loves a paradox. For example, it has some extremely strict rules. Rule number one: Nothing lasts forever. Not you or your family or your house or your planet or the sun. It is an absolute rule. Therefore when someone says that their love will never die, it means that their love is not real, for everything that is real dies. Rule number two: Everything lasts forever.
Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
Every action has its pleasures and its price.
Humans are ridiculous. We're all pathetic strivers who will fall short. If you can accept that, it's optimistic because you can shoot for the moon and know you're never going to get there, and that's OK.
I have found that nothing so deceives your adversaries as telling them the truth.
The best thinking has been done in solitude. The worst has been done in turmoil.
Rely on the ordinary virtues that intelligent, balanced human beings have relied on for centuries: common sense, thrift, realistic expectations, patience, and perseverance.
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