If we can accept as true that life circumstances are not the keys to happiness, we'll be greatly empowered to pursue happiness for ourselves.
Sonja LyubomirskyRead
People prone to joyful anticipation, skilled at obtaining pleasure from looking forward and imagining future happy events, are especially likely to be optimistic and to experience intense emotions.
Interpretation
Anticipating positive future events can enhance one's optimism and emotional experiences.
In this quote, Sonja Lyubomirsky highlights the significance of joyful anticipation in fostering a positive emotional state. Individuals who can envision and look forward to happy moments are more likely to cultivate optimism and experience deeper emotional reactions, suggesting that our mindset about the future can shape our present happiness.
In practice
In a motivational speech about cultivating a positive mindset.
If we can accept as true that life circumstances are not the keys to happiness, we'll be greatly empowered to pursue happiness for ourselves.
It is equally important to investigate wellness as it is to study misery.
Happiness is not out there for us to find. The reason that it's not out there is that it's inside us.
The combination of rumination and negative mood is toxic. Research shows that people who ruminate while sad or distraught are likely to feel besieged, powerless, self-critical, pessimistic, and generally negatively biased.
Thus the key to happiness lies not in changing our genetic makeup (which is impossible) and not in changing our circumstances (i.e., seeking wealth or attractiveness or better colleagues, which is usually impractical), but in our daily intentional activities.
I prefer to think of the creation or construction of happiness, because research shows that it's in our power to fashion it for ourselves.
Action may not always bring happiness; but there is no happiness without action.
Seek not happiness too greedily and be not fearful of happiness.
I believe compassion to be one of the few things we can practice that will bring immediate and long-term happiness to our lives.
The true enjoyments must be spontaneous and compulsive and look to no remoter end.
The most worth-while thing is to try to put happiness into the lives of others.
I live a fantastic life. Why should I complain about awards?
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