You live in a deranged age, more deranged that usual, because in spite of great scientific and technological advances, man has not the faintest idea of who he is or what he is doing.
Walker PercyRead
I have discovered that most people have no one to talk to, no one, that is, who really wants to listen. When it does at last dawn on a man that you really want to hear about his business, the look that comes over his face is something to see.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of listening and the profound impact it has on individuals.
In this quote, Walker Percy highlights a common issue in human relationships: the lack of genuine listeners. He suggests that many people feel isolated because they have no one who truly wants to hear them out. When someone finally encounters a willing listener, it can be a transformative experience that reveals the deep craving for connection and understanding that exists within everyone.
Themes
ListeningRelationshipsConnectionCommunicationUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of active listening in building relationships.
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It is possible, however, that the artist is both thin-skinned and prophetic and, like the canary lowered into the mine shaft to test the air, has caught a whiff of something lethal.
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Why is it that one can look at a lion or a planet or an owl or at someone's finger as long as one pleases, but looking into the eyes of another person is, if prolonged past a second, a perilous affair?
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We love those who know the worst of us and don't turn their faces away.
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Before, I wandered as a diversion. Now I wander seriously and sit and read as a diversion.
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