People don't talk to you properly. It's the way they talk to you; they dismiss you. I think it's a combination of me being a woman and a foreigner.
Zaha HadidRead
I don't think people should do things because you know, 'I am turning this age, I must go have a husband.' If you find somebody and it works out then have kids, it's very nice. But if you don't, you don't.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of personal choice over societal expectations regarding relationships and family.
Zaha Hadid expresses the idea that individuals should not feel pressured by age-related societal norms to engage in relationships or start families. Instead, the focus should be on finding genuine connections that work for them, suggesting that fulfillment comes from meaningful choices rather than conforming to arbitrary timelines.
Themes
RelationshipsSelf-DiscoveryPersonal ChoiceSocietyLove
In practice
Example use cases
During a panel discussion on modern relationships, this quote can highlight the importance of personal choice.
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