Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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We can know a person by observing his behaviour, understanding the reasons for his actions and ascertaining his intentions. If we do this, how can we not know him?
Interpretation
What this quote means
Understanding a person involves observing their behavior and uncovering their intentions.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of looking beyond surface interactions to truly understand an individual. By observing someone's behavior, seeking the motivations behind their actions, and clarifying their intentions, we can gain deeper insights into their character and appreciate them more fully.
Themes
UnderstandingBehaviorIntentionsCharacterObservation
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion on empathy, one might cite this quote to highlight the importance of understanding others.
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