I think there are a lot of rules for women. We have a lot of expectations and a lot of rules for women. So we're expected to march in a straight line, and when we don't, all hell breaks loose.
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That the question of likability even exists in literary conversations is odd. It implies that we are engaging in a courtship. When characters are unlikable, they don’t meet our mutable, varying standards. Certainly we can find kinship in fiction, but literary merit shouldn’t be dictated by whether we want to be friends or lovers with those about whom we read.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The likability of characters in literature shouldn't dictate their value or merit.
Roxane Gay argues that the discussion surrounding likability in literature is peculiar because it relates to personal preferences in relationships. She contends that the assessment of literary merit shouldn't depend on whether readers find characters appealing or want to form connections with them, as meaningful narratives can arise from unlikable figures.
Themes
LiteratureCharactersLikabilityNarrativeMerit
In practice
Example use cases
During a book club discussion about complex protagonists, one might use this quote to highlight how character flaws can enhance a story.
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