I take six or seven years to write really small books. There is a kind of aesthetic of leanness, of brevity.
Mohsin HamidRead
Some of my relatives held on to imagined memories the way homeless people hold onto lottery tickets. Nostalgia was their crack cocaine, if you will, and my childhood was littered with the consequences of their addiction : unserviceable debts, squabbles over inheritances, the odd alcoholic or suicide.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on how people can clutch onto false memories, causing turmoil in their relationships and lives due to their nostalgia.
In this quote, Mohsin Hamid uses the metaphor of lottery tickets to illustrate how some of his relatives cling to imagined memories as if they were precious. This nostalgia, likened to an addiction, can lead to destructive consequences, including family disputes and personal tragedies. The quote highlights the dangers of living in the past and how it can undermine relationships and well-being.
In practice
This quote can be used in a family therapy session to discuss the impact of nostalgia on family dynamics.
I take six or seven years to write really small books. There is a kind of aesthetic of leanness, of brevity.
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