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here was a silence between them for a moment, and she wondered if all women, when in love, were torn between two impulses, a longing to throw modesty and reserve to the winds and confess everything, and an equal determination to conceal the love forever, to be cool, aloof, utterly detached, to die rather than admit a thing so personal, so intimate.
Daphne Du Maurier
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote explores the internal conflict women face when in love, torn between expressing their feelings and maintaining emotional distance.

In this quote by Daphne Du Maurier, the author captures the complex emotions of women in love, highlighting the struggle between the desire to openly express affection and the instinct to maintain composure and emotional detachment. It reflects the societal pressures and personal apprehensions that can make admitting one's feelings a challenging and vulnerable act, revealing the depth of love's connection intertwined with fear of exposure.

Themes

LoveEmotionsInternal ConflictVulnerabilityIntimacy

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about the complexities of romantic relationships, this quote could illustrate the struggle many people experience.

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