The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
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Those who are silent, self-effacing and attentive become the recipients of confidences.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Being quiet and attentive allows others to confide in you.
This quote by Thornton Wilder emphasizes the value of listening and being modest. When individuals approach conversations with a quiet demeanor and genuine attentiveness, they create a safe space for others to share their thoughts and feelings, ultimately fostering deeper connections and trust in relationships.
Themes
ListeningConfidencesRelationshipsTrustModesty
In practice
Example use cases
In a personal development seminar where team building is emphasized.
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