Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.
Interpretation
The superior individual finds happiness and fulfillment within themselves, while the lesser individual relies on external validation.
This quote by Confucius illustrates a profound philosophical perspective on the nature of self-reliance and external validation. It suggests that truly admirable individuals focus on their inner qualities, values, and growth, while those who are less developed tend to seek approval and validation from others. This distinction speaks to the importance of self-discovery and personal integrity in leading a fulfilling life.
In practice
In a motivational speech about self-improvement.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
And I don't think we should be continuing to propagate the idea that famous people are magical or special because it makes people feel like their lives ain't no good.
There is something noble in hearing myself ill spoken of, when I am doing well.
Contrariwise, if it was so, it might be; and if it were so, it would be; but as it isn't, it ain't. That's logic.
The idea of God implies the abdication of human reason and justice; it is the most decisive negation of human liberty and necessarily ends in the enslavement of mankind both in theory and practice.
Cynics regarded everybody as equally corrupt... Idealists regarded everybody as equally corrupt, except themselves.
It starts when you begin to overlook good manners. Any time you quit hearing Sir and Mam the end is pretty much in sight.
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