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If you ask a ten-year-old girl what she wants to do when she grows up and a fourteen-year-old girl what she wants to be when she grows up, in many cases, the older child will have a much less free sense of what's possible.
Claire Messud
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Interpretation

What this quote means

As children grow older, their dreams and aspirations often become constrained by societal expectations.

This quote highlights how the curiosity and open-mindedness of childhood can dwindle as children age, often replaced by a more limited view of possibilities. The contrast between the aspirations of a ten-year-old girl and a fourteen-year-old girl reflects the societal pressures and experiences that can shape a child's perception of their future, indicating that growing up can sometimes mean losing the freedom to dream boldly.

Themes

DreamsChildrenAspirationsGrowthSociety

In practice

Example use cases

A teacher could use this quote to encourage students to keep dreaming big despite societal expectations.

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