Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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There are three sorts of pleasures which are advantageous, and three which are injurious. Finding pleasure in the discriminating study of ceremonies and music, finding pleasure in discussing the good points in the conduct of others, and finding pleasure in having many wise friends, these are advantageous. But finding pleasure in profligate enjoyments, finding pleasure in idle gadding about, and finding pleasure in feasting, these are injurious.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of seeking beneficial pleasures and avoiding harmful indulgences.
In this quote, Confucius distinguishes between pleasures that promote personal growth and wisdom—such as studying, appreciating others' virtues, and valuing wise friendships—and those that lead to negative consequences, like indulgence, idleness, and gluttony. The message urges individuals to reflect on their pursuits and choose those that enhance their well-being and moral character.
Themes
PleasureWisdomAdvantageousInjuriousSelf-Reflection
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about life choices and personal growth.
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