Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
M. Scott PeckRead
Until you value yourself, you won't value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.
Interpretation
Self-worth is essential for valuing your time and using it productively.
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-worth in managing time effectively. It suggests that if individuals do not recognize their own value, they are likely to undervalue how they spend their time, leading to unproductive habits and missed opportunities for growth and achievement.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal development.
Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
Listening well is an exercise of attention and by necessity hard work. It is because they do not realize this or because they are not willing to do the work that most people do not listen well.
If your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution.
All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
An unconscious, gentle process whereby people who want to be loving attempt to be so by telling little white lies, by withholding some of the truth about themselves and their feelings in order to avoid conflict. Pseudocommunity is conflict-avoiding; true community is conflict-resolving.
The constant reprimands made me hyperconscious of my own performance, and so instead of getting rid of self, I had become embedded in the egoism I was supposed to transcend. Now I was beginning to understand that a silence that is not clamorous with vexation and worried self-regard can become part of the texture of your mind, can seep into you, moment by moment, and gradually change you.
Of all our possessions, wisdom alone is immortal.
Don't you find that in a weak physique it is difficult to control the sex - appetite or anger?
Others will always seek to define you based on what they think you represent or who they think you are. But you have to be the one to control what you do and what you say and how you present yourself.
I am a part of everything that I have read.
Don't borrow someone else's plan. Develop your own philosophy and it will lead you to unique places.
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