Time and trouble will tame an advanced young woman, but an advanced old woman is uncontrollable by any earthly force.
Wherever you find a great man, you will find a great mother or a great wife standing behind him -- or so they used to say. It would be interesting to know how many great women have had great fathers and husbands behind them.
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What this quote means
Great achievements are often supported by significant relationships, but recognition must also be given to the contributions of women.
This quote emphasizes the importance of recognizing the support systems behind successful individuals. While society often credits men as the primary achievers, it suggests that many great men owe their success to the women in their lives, like mothers or wives, and presents a challenge to acknowledge the role of great women who also have had supportive fathers or husbands. It invites a reflection on gender roles and the recognition of contributions across different genders in the pursuit of greatness.
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Example use cases
In a speech about teamwork and support, you could quote this to highlight the roles of family behind success.
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