The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
Without your wounds where would your power be? It is your melancholy that makes your low voice tremble into the hearts of men and women. The very angels themselves cannot persuade the wretched and blundering children on earth as can one human being broken on the wheels of living. In Love’s service, only wounded soldiers can serve. Physician, draw back.
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What this quote means
Our struggles and pain give us strength and depth, allowing us to connect with others profoundly.
In this quote, Thornton Wilder emphasizes that personal suffering enhances our capacity to relate to others and to convey our emotions. The metaphor of 'wounded soldiers' serving in love suggests that those who have experienced hardship possess unique insights and empathy, enabling them to communicate love and understanding that resonates deeply with others. The quote acknowledges that pain and melancholy are not barriers, but rather sources of power in human connection.
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In a speech about resilience and empathy, one could use this quote to illustrate the strength that comes from overcoming personal challenges.
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Good-by, Good-by, world. Good-by, Grover's Corners... Mama and Papa. Good-by to clocks ticking... and Mama's sunflowers. And food and coffee. And new-ironed dresses and hot baths...and sleeping and waking up. Oh, earth, you're too wonderful for anybody to realize you.
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Many great writers have been extraordinarily awkward in daily exchange, but the greatest give the impression that their style was nursed by the closest attention to colloquial speech.
I want you to try and remember what it was like to have been very young. And particularly the days when you were first in love; when you were like a person sleepwalking, and you didn’t quite see the street you were in, and didn’t quite hear everything that was said to you. You’re just a little bit crazy. Will you remember that, please?
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