I suspected, however, that I wasn't homesick for anything I would find at home when I returned. The longing was for what I wouldn't find: the past and all the people and places there were lost to me.
Alice SteinbachRead
Women would be better off when they no longer needed men more than they needed their own independent identities...How long a time it took me after my divorce to understand that being alone is not the same as being lonely.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of women's independence over their reliance on men for identity and fulfillment.
Alice Steinbach expresses the idea that women should prioritize their own independent identities rather than depending on men for validation or happiness. She reflects on her personal journey after divorce, realizing that solitude does not equate to loneliness; instead, it can be a path to self-discovery and empowerment.
In practice
This quote can be used in discussions about women's empowerment during a seminar.
I suspected, however, that I wasn't homesick for anything I would find at home when I returned. The longing was for what I wouldn't find: the past and all the people and places there were lost to me.
Content isn't king. If I sent you to a desert island and gave you the choice of taking your friends or your movies, you'd choose your friends -- if you chose the movies, we'd call you a sociopath. Conversation is king. Content is just something to talk about.
I wholeheartedly believe that we can't organize just as women. There has to be specific messaging and an issue prioritization based on identity groups. Because when you ask a black woman what her top priority issues are versus a white woman versus a Muslim woman versus an undocumented woman, you're going to get... different answers.
Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they are on the same side.
The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other's smartphone.
Let's just keep asking ourselves this question: 'Is what I'm about to do strengthening the web of connections, or is it weakening it?'
There may be good, but there are no pleasant marriages.
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