Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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Avoid banquets which are given by strangers an ignorant persons. But if there is ever occasion to join them, let your attention be carefully fixed, that you slip not into the manner of the vulgar (the uninstructed).
Interpretation
What this quote means
Be cautious of the company you keep and the influence of those who lack knowledge.
This quote by Epictetus emphasizes the importance of being mindful about the people and environments we engage with. It suggests that associating with ignorant individuals can lead to adopting their behaviors and attitudes, which may detract from our own wisdom and character. Therefore, it is crucial to stay aware and maintain our values, especially in unfamiliar social settings.
Themes
WisdomIgnoranceInfluenceBehaviorAttention
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about personal development, I could use this quote to emphasize the importance of choosing friends wisely.
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All quotes →Learn to distinguish what you can and can't control. Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires and the things that repel us. They are directly subject to our influence.
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Men are disturbed not by the things that happen, but by their opinion of the things that happen.
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Nothing truly stops you. Nothing truly holds you back. For your own will is always within your control. Sickness may challenge your body. But are you merely your body? Lameness may impede your legs. But you are not merely your legs. Your will is bigger than your legs. Your will needn't be affected by an incident unless you let it.
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The people have a right to the truth as they have a right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
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Practice yourself, for heaven's sake, in little things, and thence proceed to greater.
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