Common sense (which, in truth, is very uncommon) is the best sense I know of: abide by it; it will counsel you best.
Lord ChesterfieldRead
Custom has made dancing sometimes necessary for a young man; therefore mind it while you learn it, that you may learn to do it well, and not be ridiculous, though in a ridiculous act.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the importance of learning social customs, like dancing, with care to avoid embarrassment.
Lord Chesterfield emphasizes that social skills, such as dancing, are integral to a young man's life. He advises taking the time to learn these customs properly to avoid being perceived as foolish, suggesting that while some social expectations may seem absurd, mastering them is essential for social acceptance and success.
Themes
DancingLearningCustomsSocial SkillsEducation
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of social graces at a wedding.
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