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To be a good mother, a woman must have sense, and that independence of mind which few women possess who are taught to depend entirely on their husbands. Meek wives are, in general, foolish mothers; wanting their children to love them best, and take their part, in secret, against the father, who is held up as a scarecrow.
Mary Wollstonecraft
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Interpretation

What this quote means

A good mother requires intelligence and independence, rather than simply relying on her husband.

Mary Wollstonecraft emphasizes that effective motherhood is rooted in a woman's ability to think independently and sensibly. She critiques the notion that women should be subordinate to their husbands, suggesting that meekness can lead to poor mothering, as it results in conflicting loyalties within the family, particularly between children and fathers.

Themes

MotherhoodIndependenceFeminismParentingFamily

In practice

Example use cases

In a parenting seminar discussing the roles of mothers, this quote can highlight the importance of independence in parenting.

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