Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
It's hard to practice compassion when we're struggling with our authenticity or when our own worthiness is off-balance.
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What this quote means
We find it difficult to be compassionate towards others when we are not being true to ourselves or when we feel unworthy.
Brené Brown emphasizes the connection between self-authenticity and the ability to show compassion. When individuals struggle to embrace their true selves or grapple with feelings of unworthiness, it becomes challenging to extend kindness and understanding to others. This quote highlights the importance of self-acceptance and balance in one's own life as a prerequisite for fostering meaningful relationships and empathy in the world around us.
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Sharing this quote during a workshop on emotional intelligence can inspire participants to reflect on their self-worth.
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