One of my worries about America is the epidemic of depression we've been in. One of the possibilities about that is that the 'I' gets bigger and bigger, and the 'we' gets smaller and smaller.
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I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes that happiness is only a small part of a broader approach to positive psychology.
Martin Seligman highlights that while happiness is a significant aspect of human experience, it only represents a fraction of the potential elements that contribute to a fulfilling life. By advocating for a broader perspective on positive psychology, he encourages the exploration of various dimensions of well-being beyond merely pursuing happiness.
Themes
HappinessPositive PsychologyWell-BeingFulfillmentLife Choices
In practice
Example use cases
During a workshop on mental health, I referenced this quote to illustrate that happiness is part of a larger picture of well-being.
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