Etiquette requires the presumption of good until the contrary is proved.
Emily PostRead
Jealousy is the suspicion of one's own inferiority.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Jealousy often stems from our own insecurities about ourselves compared to others.
In this quote, Emily Post asserts that jealousy originates from a person's internal doubts and feelings of inadequacy. Instead of being a reaction purely to others' actions, jealousy reveals an individual's own vulnerabilities and perceived shortcomings, suggesting that those who experience jealousy may struggle with self-esteem and confidence.
Themes
JealousyInferiorityRelationshipsInsecuritySelf-Esteem
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about relationships, one might say, 'As Emily Post once said, 'Jealousy is the suspicion of one's own inferiority,' reminding us to reflect on our insecurities instead of blaming others.
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