The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
Thornton WilderRead
Now he discovered that secret from which one never quite recovers, that even in the most perfect love one person loves less profoundly than the other. There may be two equally good, equally gifted, equally beautiful, but theremay never be two that love one another equally well.
Interpretation
What this quote means
In love, one partner often feels a deeper affection than the other, regardless of their shared qualities.
This quote by Thornton Wilder explores the complex nature of love, suggesting that even in the deepest and most ideal relationships, love is not always equally shared. It reflects the intrinsic imbalance that can exist, where one person may cherish the other more profoundly, leading to a dynamic that is often present in human connections.
Themes
LoveRelationshipsAffectionImbalanceEmotion
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, one might reflect on the complexities of love and how true affection varies between partners.
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