I'm sad to report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent 21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards to the familiar territory of command and control.
Margaret J. WheatleyRead
Without aggression, it becomes possible to think well, to be curious about differences, and to enjoy each other's company.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of reducing aggression to foster understanding and enjoyment in relationships.
Margaret J. Wheatley's quote highlights that when aggression is absent, individuals are able to think clearly, embrace curiosity about others' perspectives, and truly appreciate time spent together. This idea suggests that peaceful interactions lead to more meaningful connections, allowing for a richer and more harmonious social experience.
In practice
In a team-building workshop focused on collaboration.
I'm sad to report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent 21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards to the familiar territory of command and control.
In our daily life, we encounter people who are angry, deceitful, intent only on satisfying their own needs. There is so much anger, distrust, greed, and pettiness that we are losing our capacity to work well together.
Even though worker capacity and motivation are destroyed when leaders choose power over productivity, it appears that bosses would rather be in control than have the organization work well.
Our willingness to acknowledge that we only see half the picture creates the conditions that make us more attractive to others. The more sincerely we acknowledge our need for their different insights and perspectives, the more they will be magnetized to join us.
They have eliminated rigidity, both physical and psychological, in order to support more fluid processes whereby temporary teams are created to deal with specific and ever-changing needs. They have simplified roles into minimal categories; they have knocked down walls and created workplaces where people, ideas, and information circulate freely.
It's not differences that divide us. It's our judgments about each other that do.
Whatever he might have denied me was unimportant; it was the fact that he could deny me anything at all, even what I didn't want
For in self-giving, if anywhere, we touch a rhythm not only of all creation but of all being.
The relationship between husband and wife should be one of closest friends.
Those men are most apt to be obsequious and conciliating abroad, who are under the discipline of shrews at home.
I don't dislike any of my exes. If I took time to form a relationship, it's gonna hurt when we move on, but are you puttin' White-Out over all that beautiful time together? That was real time in your life. It's connected to where you are today.
We neither of us perform to strangers.
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