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As women, we get the message about how to be a good girl - how to be a good, pretty girl - from such an early age. Then, at the same time, we're told that well-behaved girls won't change the world or ever make a splash.
Phoebe Waller-Bridge
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote highlights the conflicting messages that women receive about behavior and ambition.

Phoebe Waller-Bridge articulates the societal expectations placed on women to conform to standards of being 'good' and 'pretty,' which she contrasts with the notion that these traits do not lead to significant impact or change in the world. This duality reflects the ongoing struggle women face between societal pressures and the desire for agency and influence.

Themes

WomenSocietyAmbitionBehaviorExpectations

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in discussions about gender roles during a women's empowerment seminar.

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