Where misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.
Lionel TrillingRead
Youth is a time when we find the books we give up but do not get over.
Interpretation
Youth is a formative period where certain books leave lasting impressions on us.
In this quote, Lionel Trilling highlights the idea that the literature we encounter in our youth often shapes our thoughts and identities in profound ways. These books are not just stories; they are experiences that resonate with us deeply, influencing our perspectives and values long after we have read them.
In practice
During a graduation speech, one could use this quote to emphasize the impact of education and reading in shaping character.
Where misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.
Our culture peculiarly honors the act of blaming, which it takes as the sign of virtue and intellect.
The poet may be used as a barometer, but let us not forget that he is also part of the weather.
Every neurosis is a primitive form of legal proceeding in which the accused carries on the prosecution, imposes judgment and executes the sentence: all to the end that someone else should not perform the same process.
There is no connection between the political ideas of our educated class and the deep places of the imagination.
We are at heart so profoundly anarchistic that the only form of state we can imagine living in is Utopian; and so cynical that the only Utopia we can believe in is authoritarian.
I asked my mum, who's a very clever psychotherapist, and she says that kids love stories about death; they need it, they need to have stories that deal with death and explain it, as a place to put their fears.
Make this the golden rule, the equivalent of the Hippocratic oath: Everything we ask a child to do should be worth doing.
Negative feelings are typical of learning, and you shouldn't feel like you're stupid when you're frustrated doing something. You might say to yourself, 'I can't do this,' but you should say, 'That's great.' That means you really have the potential to learn something there.
While my parents never had the time or money to secure university education themselves, they were adamant that their children should. In comfort and in love, we were taught the joys of knowledge and of work well done. I only regret that neither my mother nor my father could live to see the day I would accept the Nobel Prize.
Fifty percent of all meaningful education takes place in the home. What do you share with your child? You share your interests. I was a book person. I read with my son. My wife is an artist. She dragged his little butt around to museums. He's an illustrator of children's books.
Lack of homework shows up in the marketplace as well as in the classroom.
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