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Without the will, marriage is a mockery; without emotion, it is a drudgery. You need both.
Ravi Zacharias
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Marriage requires both commitment and emotional connection to be meaningful.

This quote highlights the essential components of a successful marriage. It suggests that simply being willing to enter into a marriage is not enough; one must also infuse the relationship with genuine emotion and affection. Without the commitment ('will'), marriage can become meaningless, akin to a 'mockery.' Conversely, a marriage driven purely by emotion without the necessary commitment can become burdensome or tedious, termed as 'drudgery.' Thus, both elements are crucial for a fulfilling partnership.

Themes

MarriageCommitmentEmotionLoveRelationship

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding ceremony, I want to share this quote to emphasize the importance of both commitment and love in a marriage.

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